Sunday, December 5, 2010

How to Know if Your Friend Is Really a Friend

Are you not sure if your friend really is a friend? Are you not sure if he/she cares about you, if you can trust him/her, etc? With these steps, you will find out.

1) Test your friend. Tell him/her a fake secret you have, and see if he/she makes rumors about it or not. Make sure your fake secret is scandalous enough, and it does not involve anyone but you.

2) Make sure your friend doesn't ditch you often. If he/she ditches you almost all the time, and it doesn't seem like a joke, that means he/she isn't really a good friend.

3) Make sure your friend does not force you, or make you follow. This means they don't care about you, and only want you as a henchman/Hench woman.

4) Spy on your friend. This is a good way to find out if he or she is backstabbing you or lying to you. Make sure you bring a mini notepad and a pen to record what suspicious things he or she does.

5) Another way to test your friend is to invite him or her to a party. Have a classmate invite him or her to a way cooler party. Find out which party he or she goes to.

6) Have a classmate talk about you in a mean way to your friend, and have the classmate record or tell you whatever he or she said. If not, spy on your friend while the classmate does his or her job

7) Ask questions. Do surveys.

8) Yet again, have a classmate ask what your friend thinks about you. Have the classmate tell you the results, or spy.

9) If you are really, REALLY desperate, feel free to read your friend's diary or journal, to see if he/she wrote anything negative about you. To feel more comfy, look at your friend's sketchpad or drawings to see if your friend drew anything negative about you.

10) If you think your friend is lying, always try to get proof of what he/she said.

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