Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Anggak?

Cicak Anggak (dalam bahasa Brunei) atau lebih dikenali sebagai Cicak Tokek, merupakan topik hangat di alam Melayu abad ke 21. Kalau orang Cina dengan Naga-nya, inikan pula orang Melayu dengan Cicak Anggak/Tokek/Gecko atau nama scientific-nya Gecko.

Persoalannya kenapa ia begitu popular sehingga ramai orang memburunya ?

Ini kerana bentuk badannya yang unik iaitu berwarna bintik-bintikan berbanding dengan cicak kebiasaan yang terdapat di dalam rumah. Malahan juga orang yang memburunya adalah kerana harganya yang boleh mencecah ratusan ringgit malahan ada pula hingga beribu-ribu ringgit.

Bayangkan seekor Cicak Gecko yang seberat se-auns atau dua-auns sudah berharga beribu ringgit. Jika sudah sepulah ekor sudah tentu dapat berpuluh ribu ringgit. Hidup sudah tentu senang lenang, tak usah mencari pekerjaan, tak usah belajar tinggi-tinggi ke peringkat universiti. Hanya dengan memburu cicak sudah kaya. Itu tertakhluklah kepada si pembeli.

Dan kenapa pula orang sanggup membelinya ?

Takkan Cicak Gecko nak dibuat sambal belacan, masak kari ataupun ulam-ulaman. Takkan manusia sejagat hilang selera nak makan ayam masak kicap. Ayam sekilo sudah berharga $5 ringgit. Inikan pula cicak Gecko seberat se-auns sudah mencapai beribu ringgit. Jauh bezanya dengan bentuk badan dan hargannya. Namun jika ia bertujuan sebagai binatang peliharaan, saya tidak mengatakan tidak boleh. Ikut haluan masing-masing.

Dikatakan pula Cicak Gecko boleh merawat penyakit HIVs. Betul atau tidak, saya sendiri tidak tahu. Itulah yang saya sendiri terbaca pada blog masa kini. Tetapi persoalannya mengapa para saintis negara barat lambat mengkajinya...? Adakah orang Melayu sudah begitu canggih.? Dimanakah bukti yang menyatakan HIVs kini dapat dirawat..? Adakah ianya satu teknik penipuan dalam perniagaan hanya semata-mata inginkan wang beribu-ribu ringgit..?

Cicak dari segi pandangan Islam.

Dikatakan bahawa membunuh cicak itu mendapat pahala sebagaimana Didalam shahih Muslim, Sunan Abu Daud dan Jami’ at Tirmidzi dari Abu Hurairoh berkata : Rasulullah saw bersabda,”Barangsiapa membunuh cecak maka pada awal pukulannya baginya ini dan itu satu kebaikan. Barangsiapa yang membunuhnya dalam pukulan kedua maka baginya ini dan itu satu kebaikan yang berbeda dengan yang pertama. Jika dia membunuhnya pada pukulan ketiga maka baginya ini dan itu kebaikan yang berbeda dengan yang kedua.

Ini bererti bukanlah satu kewajiban seseorang itu untuk membunuhnya melainkan sekiranya cicak itu membahayakan persekitaran kita misalnya meracuni makanan kita. *Wallahu' A'lam*

The Victoria Harbor

The Hong Kong Harbor (now Victoria Harbor) in China is located somewhere between the Hong Kong Island and Kowloon Peninsula. This harbor, because of its location on the south, favored the Britisher’s to make it one of the most famous and the biggest center for trade. The shore over the years has undergone enormous change.

It is a very common tourist’s attraction because of its beautiful scenic view of Hong Kong and its harbor. This harbor display spectacular fireworks during the 2nd night of the lunar year and thus is very common point for the tourists and the localities. It is also used to form recreation like swimming and polo. The harbor was initially called the Hong Kong Harbor and its modern name is the Victoria Harbor. This name change was done to ensure and pacify the fleet that belonged to Queen Victoria. As the manufacture sector increased day by day, club races were stopped because of access of pollution.

The latest proposed recovery extends along the waterfront from Sheung Wan to Causeway Bay had to face a lot of conflict. Till this time, the harbor became very important and a known location for the localities in Hong Kong. Some common activists went against the government and raised protests as the environment of one of the most natural asset was in threat. The harbor today of course is very well maintained by the government of China and Hong Kong attracts many new and old visitors. It is also fully engaged in the proper trade and is still the best and the largest harbor in Hong Kong.

Modern technology is changing the way our brains work, says neuroscientist.

Human identity, the idea that defines each and every one of us, could be facing an unprecedented crisis.

It is a crisis that would threaten long-held notions of who we are, what we do and how we behave.

It goes right to the heart - or the head - of us all. This crisis could reshape how we interact with each other, alter what makes us happy, and modify our capacity for reaching our full potential as individuals.

And it's caused by one simple fact: the human brain, that most sensitive of organs, is under threat from the modern world.

Unless we wake up to the damage that the gadget-filled, pharmaceutically-enhanced 21st century is doing to our brains, we could be sleepwalking towards a future in which neuro-chip technology blurs the line between living and non-living machines, and between our bodies and the outside world.

It would be a world where such devices could enhance our muscle power, or our senses, beyond the norm, and where we all take a daily cocktail of drugs to control our moods and performance.

Already, an electronic chip is being developed that could allow a paralysed patient to move a robotic limb just by thinking about it. As for drug manipulated moods, they're already with us - although so far only to a medically prescribed extent.

Increasing numbers of people already take Prozac for depression, Paxil as an antidote for shyness, and give Ritalin to children to improve their concentration. But what if there were still more pills to enhance or "correct" a range of other specific mental functions?

What would such aspirations to be "perfect" or "better" do to our notions of identity, and what would it do to those who could not get their hands on the pills? Would some finally have become more equal than others, as George Orwell always feared?

Of course, there are benefits from technical progress - but there are great dangers as well, and I believe that we are seeing some of those today.

I'm a neuroscientist and my day-to-day research at Oxford University strives for an ever greater understanding - and therefore maybe, one day, a cure - for Alzheimer's disease.

But one vital fact I have learnt is that the brain is not the unchanging organ that we might imagine. It not only goes on developing, changing and, in some tragic cases, eventually deteriorating with age, it is also substantially shaped by what we do to it and by the experience of daily life. When I say "shaped", I'm not talking figuratively or metaphorically; I'm talking literally. At a microcellular level, the infinitely complex network of nerve cells that make up the constituent parts of the brain actually change in response to certain experiences and stimuli.

The brain, in other words, is malleable - not just in early childhood but right up to early adulthood, and, in certain instances, beyond. The surrounding environment has a huge impact both on the way our brains develop and how that brain is transformed into a unique human mind.

Of course, there's nothing new about that: human brains have been changing, adapting and developing in response to outside stimuli for centuries.

What prompted me to write my book is that the pace of change in the outside environment and in the development of new technologies has increased dramatically. This will affect our brains over the next 100 years in ways we might never have imagined.

Our brains are under the influence of an ever- expanding world of new technology: multichannel television, video games, MP3 players, the internet, wireless networks, Bluetooth links - the list goes on and on.

But our modern brains are also having to adapt to other 21st century intrusions, some of which, such as prescribed drugs like Ritalin and Prozac, are supposed to be of benefit, and some of which, such as widelyavailable illegal drugs like cannabis and heroin, are not.


Electronic devices and pharmaceutical drugs all have an impact on the micro- cellular structure and complex biochemistry of our brains. And that, in turn, affects our personality, our behaviour and our characteristics. In short, the modern world could well be altering our human identity.


Three hundred years ago, our notions of human identity were vastly simpler: we were defined by the family we were born into and our position within that family. Social advancement was nigh on impossible and the concept of "individuality" took a back seat.


That only arrived with the Industrial Revolution, which for the first time offered rewards for initiative, ingenuity and ambition. Suddenly, people had their own life stories - ones which could be shaped by their own thoughts and actions. For the first time, individuals had a real sense of self.


But with our brains now under such widespread attack from the modern world, there's a danger that that cherished sense of self could be diminished or even lost.


Anyone who doubts the malleability of the adult brain should consider a startling piece of research conducted at Harvard Medical School. There, a group of adult volunteers, none of whom could previously play the piano, were split into three groups.


The first group were taken into a room with a piano and given intensive piano practise for five days. The second group were taken into an identical room with an identical piano - but had nothing to do with the instrument at all.


And the third group were taken into an identical room with an identical piano and were then told that for the next five days they had to just imagine they were practising piano exercises.


The resultant brain scans were extraordinary. Not surprisingly, the brains of those who simply sat in the same room as the piano hadn't changed at all.


Equally unsurprising was the fact that those who had performed the piano exercises saw marked structural changes in the area of the brain associated with finger movement.


But what was truly astonishing was that the group who had merely imagined doing the piano exercises saw changes in brain structure that were almost as pronounced as those that had actually had lessons. "The power of imagination" is not a metaphor, it seems; it's real, and has a physical basis in your brain.

Alas, no neuroscientist can explain how the sort of changes that the Harvard experimenters reported at the micro-cellular level translate into changes in character, personality or behaviour. But we don't need to know that to realise that changes in brain structure and our higher thoughts and feelings are incontrovertibly linked.


What worries me is that if something as innocuous as imagining a piano lesson can bring about a visible physical change in brain structure, and therefore some presumably minor change in the way the aspiring player performs, what changes might long stints playing violent computer games bring about? That eternal teenage protest of 'it's only a game, Mum' certainly begins to ring alarmingly hollow.


Already, it's pretty clear that the screen-based, two dimensional world that so many teenagers - and a growing number of adults - choose to inhabit is producing changes in behaviour. Attention spans are shorter, personal communication skills are reduced and there's a marked reduction in the ability to think abstractly.


This games-driven generation interpret the world through screen-shaped eyes. It's almost as if something hasn't really happened until it's been posted on Facebook, Bebo or YouTube.

Add that to the huge amount of personal information now stored on the internet - births, marriages, telephone numbers, credit ratings, holiday pictures - and it's sometimes difficult to know where the boundaries of our individuality actually lie. Only one thing is certain: those boundaries are weakening.


And they could weaken further still if, and when, neurochip technology becomes more widely available. These tiny devices will take advantage of the discovery that nerve cells and silicon chips can happily co-exist, allowing an interface between the electronic world and the human body. One of my colleagues recently suggested that someone could be fitted with a cochlear implant (devices that convert sound waves into electronic impulses and enable the deaf to hear) and a skull-mounted micro- chip that converts brain waves into words (a prototype is under research).

Then, if both devices were connected to a wireless network, we really would have arrived at the point which science fiction writers have been getting excited about for years. Mind reading!


He was joking, but for how long the gag remains funny is far from clear.


Today's technology is already producing a marked shift in the way we think and behave, particularly among the young.


I mustn't, however, be too censorious, because what I'm talking about is pleasure. For some, pleasure means wine, women and song; for others, more recently, sex, drugs and rock 'n' roll; and for millions today, endless hours at the computer console.


But whatever your particular variety of pleasure (and energetic sport needs to be added to the list), it's long been accepted that 'pure' pleasure - that is to say, activity during which you truly "let yourself go" - was part of the diverse portfolio of normal human life. Until now, that is.


Now, coinciding with the moment when technology and pharmaceutical companies are finding ever more ways to have a direct influence on the human brain, pleasure is becoming the sole be-all and end-all of many lives, especially among the young.


We could be raising a hedonistic generation who live only in the thrill of the computer-generated moment, and are in distinct danger of detaching themselves from what the rest of us would consider the real world.


This is a trend that worries me profoundly. For as any alcoholic or drug addict will tell you, nobody can be trapped in the moment of pleasure forever. Sooner or later, you have to come down.

I'm certainly not saying all video games are addictive (as yet, there is not enough research to back that up), and I genuinely welcome the new generation of "brain-training" computer games aimed at keeping the little grey cells active for longer.


As my Alzheimer's research has shown me, when it comes to higher brain function, it's clear that there is some truth in the adage "use it or lose it".


However, playing certain games can mimic addiction, and that the heaviest users of these games might soon begin to do a pretty good impersonation of an addict.


Throw in circumstantial evidence that links a sharp rise in diagnoses of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and the associated three-fold increase in Ritalin prescriptions over the past ten years with the boom in computer games and you have an immensely worrying scenario.

But we mustn't be too pessimistic about the future. It may sound frighteningly Orwellian, but there may be some potential advantages to be gained from our growing understanding of the human brain's tremendous plasticity. What if we could create an environment that would allow the brain to develop in a way that was seen to be of universal benefit?


I'm not convinced that scientists will ever find a way of manipulating the brain to make us all much cleverer (it would probably be cheaper and far more effective to manipulate the education system). And nor do I believe that we can somehow be made much happier - not, at least, without somehow anaesthetising ourselves against the sadness and misery that is part and parcel of the human condition.


When someone I love dies, I still want to be able to cry.


But I do, paradoxically, see potential in one particular direction. I think it possible that we might one day be able to harness outside stimuli in such a way that creativity - surely the ultimate expression of individuality - is actually boosted rather than diminished.


I am optimistic and excited by what future research will reveal into the workings of the human brain, and the extraordinary process by which it is translated into a uniquely individual mind.

But I'm also concerned that we seem to be so oblivious to the dangers that are already upon us.

Well, that debate must start now. Identity, the very essence of what it is to be human, is open to change - both good and bad. Our children, and certainly our grandchildren, will not thank us if we put off discussion much longer.


Mr. Teddy.




& thanks iyrah for the teddy. :DD

Monday, November 29, 2010

Ambuyat

Ambuyat is made from pouring hot water into ambulungor better known as sago. Sago is derived from a tree trunk, believe it or not. The trunk of a rumbia tree (scientific name, metroxylon), a family of palm trees such as coconuts, are used to make sago. The trees are cut down. Then they are stripped of fronds and other coverings before being cut into several pieces. These cut pieces are stripped of their hard bark. The pieces are then scraped or grated by machine onto a sluice.

The scrapings with the impurities are sifted out leaving the sago in a wooden trough filled with water that will be drained away once the sago has settled down. The dug out is then filled with water once more and the mixture is stirred thoroughly. After the water is drained off, it will reveal the sago as white solids or lumps. These sago lumps are then packed in basket-like tampin woven from the nipah leaves before being taken to the market. Nowadays, processing ambulung is less labourious as machines have taken over most of the work. (The following photos is a sequence of events required to turn a rumbia tree into ambuyat, just in case you need to explain it to someone, one of these days.)

&ambuyat is also known as, "Ambulung"

kelebihan seorang wanita

Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 orang wali, Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 lelaki soleh, Seorang wanita yang jahat adalah lebih buruk daripada 1,000 lelaki yang jahat, 2 rakaat solat dari wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil, Wanita yang memberi minum susu dada kepada anaknya akan dapat satu pahala daripada tiap-tiap titik susu yang diberikannya. Wanita yang melayan dengan baik suami yang pulang ke rumah didalam keadaan letih akan mendapat pahala jihad.


Wanita yang habiskan malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan mendapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba. Wanita yang melihat suaminya dengan kasih sayang dan suami yang melihat isterinya dengan kasih sayang akan dipandang Allah dengan penuh rahmat. Wanita yang menyebabkan suaminya keluar dan berjuang ke jalan Allah dan kemudian menjaga adab rumahtangganya akan masuk syurga 500 tahun lebih awal daripada suaminya, akan menjadi ketua 70,000 malaikat dan bidadari dan wanita itu akan dimandikan di dalam syurga, dan menunggu suaminya dengan menunggang kuda yang dibuat daripada yakut.

Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya dan bila dia hiburkan hati anaknya Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat. Wanita yang memerah susu binatang dengan "bismillah" akan didoakan oleh binatang itu dengan doa keberkatan. Wanita yang menguli tepung gandum dengan "bismillah", Allah akan berkatkan rezekinya. Wanita yang menyapu lantai dengan berzikir akan mendapat pahala seperti meyapu lantai di baitullah. Wanita yang menjaga solat, puasa dan taat pada suami, Allah akan mengizinkannya untuk memasuki syurga dari mana-mana pintu yang dia suka.

Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala berpuasa pada sianghari. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala beribadat pada malam hari. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji. Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin,dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid. Jika wanita melayan suami tanpa khianat akan mendapat pahala 12 tahun solat. Jika wanita menyusui anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 tahun), maka malaikat-malaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajib baginya. Jika wanita memberi susu dadanya kepada anaknya yang menangis, Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa.

Jika wanita memicit suami tanpa disuruh akan mendapat pahala 7 tola emas dan jika wanita memicit suami bila disuruh akan mendapat pahala 7 tola perak. Wanita yang meninggal dunia dengan keredhaan suaminya akan memasuki syurga. Jika suami mengajarkan isterinya satu masalah akan mendapat pahala 80 tahun ibadat. Semua orang akan dipanggil untuk melihat wajah Allah di akhirat, tetapi Allah akan datang sendiri kepada wanita yang memberati auratnya iaitu memakai purdah di dunia ini dengan istiqamah.

Saturday, November 27, 2010

"Reason Why Boy Don't Like To Marry Pretty Woman"

1) The management fee is too high.
- Pretty girls are most of the people choice, even if you chase her first, you can ensure that others will not chase her? If not why the most popular word used by people is "have a boyfriend, so what? as long as haven married! ;even have a husband? so what? they can also be a divorce!".

2) High maintenance costs
- As the saying goes: "Three percent look, seven percent dressing". It was because most of the girl only looks beautiful when they are make up. If the girl like to make up and dressing, they will be two type of characteristics which is the First and Second also likes shopping. Speaking of shopping, many boy scared listening to it because the boy don't know how those girl can walk so long without having feet pain.

3) "Usage" value is not high.
- It was because most of the pretty girl they don't know how to cook in the kitchen. To them, going kitchen will spoils their make up, skins, face and other. Therefore, if you want to eat something, you must be dine out or the men cook by themselves. Moreover, cleaning the kitchen and home health such as washing the toilet, you can only depend yourself to do it.

4) "Durability" is not strong
- Most of the pretty girls around will surrounded by materialistic item. They will be used to have some bad habits such as "small princess behavior, bad temper and others. Therefore, you don't know whether you can stand with this kind problem. Maybe one or two days you can stand it, but if in eight or ten years, a lifetime it? Will you be willing to overcome it forever?

5) The economic costs of problem
- Love comparison. In general, many people will chase those pretty girl. Whether you are the first man chasing her, or the 10th who chasing her, she will make comparison between the ex. It will be in various type of comparison whether you are smart looking, rich, capability and much more until endless

broken english? i know. hahaha! taken from someone's blog. :DD

Friday, November 26, 2010

forgiveness in friendship.

What does this have to do with the topic of forgiveness in friendship? Well, to feel that you are not as good a friend as you should be or could be opens up an awareness that perhaps whatever it was that your friend said, or did that slighted you wasn’t done out of malice. For example, the friend who cancels dinner with you because she has just fallen in love and would rather go out with him. It would take a lot more self-awareness than most people have for that friend to also add, “I know I’m being selfish and insecure and even thoughtless, but I hope you’ll understand and forgive me.”
No, instead someone will just say, “I’m sorry but so-and-so asked me out to dinner and I told him “yes” because I knew you’d understand. We’ll make it another time.”
You may say, “Of course I understand,” but inside you’re seething, angry, hurt, carrying a grudge that might even be the reason the friendship is waning or even ending.
Putting yourself in your friend’s shoes and seeing the situation from her points of view doesn’t always work. Sometimes it actually backfires since you tell yourself this really bothers you and that you would never do something like that. So how could your friend?
A more aware person would realize that you and your friend are different and that it could be just those differences that might make your friendship so strong. Yes, there are those who believe that old adage that “birds of a feather flock together” but there are those in the opposite camp who disagree and say: “opposites attract.”
Basically, this column is a plea for forgiveness in friendship. I’m not talking about forgiving those really horrific “crossing the line” type of actions that are so over the top that almost everyone would understand if you did get upset. Like helping your friend plan her wedding but being left off the guest list. Or being used by your friend for opportunistic reasons – what your friend can get out of your friendship – rather than just for being each other’s friends. Or flirting or, worse yet, having an affair with your date or loved one.
Forgiveness in those situations is certainly possible but that’s asking a lot. I’m suggesting, for starters, that you begin forgiving yourself, or your friend for the little annoyances that can eat away at a friendship. I’m referring to things like the phone call that doesn’t get returned right away. (It turns out your friend was out of town and didn’t remember to tell you.) Or the birthday that’s missed this year. (Your friend is preoccupied with lots of career and personal challenges and it literally slipped her mind.) Letting too much time pass between phone calls or get togethers. (You, or your friend, are just plain overwhelmed by everyone and everything you have to do. Fitting in your friendship just doesn’t seem feasible for now.)
If you are lucky enough to have a close or best friend that goes back to your schooldays or even your childhood, you are fortunate indeed. That friendship is what I call a “nostalgic” friendship and you have to cut those nostalgic friends the most slack because they have known you in a way that no one else could ever know you again. They knew you at five or ten or in your teen years. Even the newer friends you meet at work or through your Mom activities. Those are newer friends but they are there for you at another time in your life when you needed them, and they needed you.
Friendship requires that two people who are equally committed to making their unique and powerful relationship last. It is based on trust, honesty, mutual liking, and sometimes even shared activities, but most of all shared values. One of those shared values that will take you very far with each and every friendship, including the friendship with yourself, is recognizing and agreeing on the value of forgiveness. That doesn’t mean you let a friend walk all over you if they are mistreating you or ignoring you to a point that is unacceptable. But the next time you want to criticize or express your condemnation at your friend because she let you down, at least try to find out just what was going on in her life that was behind her actions and see if you can forgive her.
So many people today have to put up with bosses or co-workers they would prefer to leave behind but the tough job market and economy forces them to stay put at least for longer than they would like. Friends and friendship, more than ever, needs to be that safe place where we can be ourselves, where we are appreciated and understood and we are cut some slack.

zouk out 2010!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

why do we laugh and cry?


☻As humans we laugh and cry, but seldom do we question how, or why. There are many processes involved in both responses. Cultures around the world allow both crying and laughing as acceptable behaviors. With crying, as well as laughter, the body goes through physical or chemical changes. Crying and laughter are beneficial to us both emotionally and physically. We must have them to function in the world.

☻Crying is a more complicated process than one would at first imagine. First of all, there are really three different types of tears. Basal tears keep our eyes lubricated constantly. Reflex tears are produced when our eyes get irritated, like with onions or when something gets into our eyes. The third kind of tear is produced when the body reacts emotionally to something. Each type of tear contains different amounts of chemical proteins and hormones. Scientists have discovered that the emotional tears contain higher levels of manganese and the hormone prolactin, and this contributes in a reduction of both of these in the body; thus helping to keep depression away. Many people have found that crying actually calms them after being upset, and this is in part due to the chemicals and hormones that are released in the tears.

☻How then actually do we cry? The psychic tears (or emotional tears) require an emotional response, or trigger to be activated. This response can be caused by an outside source, either pain or loss of love, etc., or from an inside source (self-realization of one's life and others). When emotions affect us, the nervous system stimulates the cranial nerve, in the brain and this sends signals to the neurotransmitters to the tear glands. Thus, we cry .The largest tear gland, the lacrimal gland produces the tears of emotion and reflex. Many believe that the body, in times of emotional stress, depends on this gland to release excess amounts of chemicals and hormones, returning it to a stable state.

☻There are many culturally acceptable reasons to cry in society .The first accepted reason to cry is probably death. Grieving includes crying and often times it was believed that if someone did not cry, they would suffer physically because they did not release their pain. Experiences in life and love are other reasons society allows us to cry. Women have been allowed to cry more than men traditionally, but the benefits of crying seem to suggest that men need to cry more. Cultures around the world have crying out of obligation, for show, and for grief and pain. Each culture defines where and when it is acceptable to cry. Cultures, in some parts of the world, sometimes determine the length of crying and mourning. For example, in the Zuni culture, a chief allows the mourners of the dead to cry for four days after which the chief says that the death occurred four years ago, and now the mourning may end.

☻As well as with crying, laughter is also acceptable culturally for a variety of reasons. Often, just because of where a person lives, something may be funny and make them laugh. It may not be funny anywhere else in the world. Also, their culture and community may dictate what is appropriate to laugh at and what is not. People have often said, "Laughter is the best medicine," and they may not be too far from the truth. When we laugh, the body makes facial gestures and sounds. The body relaxes during laughter. The diaphragm, abdominal, respiratory, facial, leg and back muscles all get a workout. Scientists have found that laughing one hundred times is equal to a ten-minute workout on a rowing machine, or fifteen minutes on an exercise bike. Laughter helps promote healing in the body by lowering blood pressure and increasing blood flow. When we laugh, the production of T -cells that destroy tumors and viruses increase, and more Gamma interferon (which is a disease fighting protein) isreleased. Laughter has been found to reduce the amount of stress hormones and help us cope with our lives better. When others laugh, sometimes the laughter can be contagious. Everyone around them starts to laugh. Some people, when stressed or upset, go to a funny movie or a comedy club hoping to laugh all of their negative emotions away.

☻There is a special name for the physiological study of laughter. It is called Gelotology. Scientists have discovered that within four- tenths of a second of seeing something humorous, an electrical wave moved through the cerebral cortex of the brain. If the wave took a negative charge, there was laughter. Many areas of the brain are involved in making us laugh. The emotional, the intellectual, and the sensory processing parts of our brain all playa role in stimulating the motor sections of our brain to physically make us laugh.

☻Researchers have found that laughter is used in making and strengthening our connections with each other. People that are more dominant, like a boss or head of a family, for example, use more humor than others around them. Laughter becomes away to show power over the emotional climate of the group. When someone is embarrassed or threatened, laughter can defuse the situation by deflecting the anger and accepting humiliation.

☻We need both laughter and tears to help us function in society. Crying relieves stress, reduces hormone and chemical levels in the body, and helps us return to a calm state. Laughter relieves stress, stimulates healing, exercises certain parts of the body, and helps in human bonding. That is why crying and laughing are beneficial to us both emotionally and physically.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

HIGHEST, LONGEST, BIGGEST, LARGEST, DEEPEST, SMALLEST OF THE WORLD

Largest Airport - King Khalid International Airport (South Arabia)
Highest Airport - Lhasa Air port, Tibet
Tallest Animal - Giraffe
Largest Animal - Blue Bottom whale
Largest Bay - Hudson Bay, Canada,
Fastest Bird - Swift
Largest Bird - Ostrich
Smallest Bird - Humming bird
Longest Bridge - the Akashi Kaikyo bridge in Japan takes the title, with a main span of 1,991 meters (or 6,532 feet)
Tallest Building - Taipei 101, Taipei, Taiwan,2004,101 stories,509m,1,670ft
Longest Canal - Baltic sea White Canal
Largest Cathedral - Cathedral Church of New York
Largest Cemetry - Leningrad, Russia
Largest Church - Belisca of St. Peter in the Vatican City, Rome.
Largest Continent - Asia
Smallest Continent - Australia
Largest Country - Russia
Smallest Country - Vatican City
Biggest Cinema House - Roxy, New York
Highest City - Wen Chuan, China
Highest Population - Mexico
Longest Day - June 21
Shortest Day - December 22
Largest Delta - Sunderbans
Largest Desert - Sahara, Africa
Biggest Dome - Gol Gumbaz (Bijapur), India
Largest Dams - Grand Coulee Dam, USA
Tallest Fountain - Fountain Hills, Arizona
Largest Gulf - Gulf of Mexico
Largest Hotel - Hotel Rossaiya, Moscow
Largest Island - Greenland
Largest Lake - Caspian Sea, CIS Iran
Deepest Lake - Baikal (Siberia)
Highest Lake - Titicaca (Bolivia)
Biggest Library - National Kiev Library, Moscow and Library of the Congress, Washington
Largest Mosque - Jama Masjid, Delhi (India)
Highest Mountain Peak Mount Everest (Nepal)
Highest Mountain Range Himalayas
Longest Mountain - Andes (South America)
Biggest Museum - British Museum (London)
Largest Minaret Sultan Has-san Mosque (Egypt)
Tallest Minaret - Qutub Minar, Delhi (India)
Biggest Oceans - Pacific Ocean
Deepest Oceans - Pacific Ocean
Biggest Palace - Vatican (Rome)
Largest Palace - Imperial Palace (China)
Biggest Park - Yellow Stone Na tional Park
Largest Park - Wood Buffalo National Park (Canada)
Largest Peninsula - Arabia
Highest Plateau - Pamir (Tibet)
Longest Platform - Kharagpur, W. Bengal (India)
Largest Platform - Grand Central Terminal, (Ely. Sta tion)New York (USA)
Biggest Planet - Jupiter
Smallest Planet - Murcury
Brightest Planet Venus
Coldest Planet Pluto
Nearest (To the Sun) - Mercury
Farthest (from the Sun) - Pluto
Longest River - Nile, Africa
Longest River Dam - Hirakud Dam, India
Largest Sea - South China Sea
Largest Stadium - Starhove Stadium, Prague (Czech Republic)
Brightest Star - Sirius A
Tallest Statue - Motherland (Russia)
Largest Sea-bird - Albatross
Biggest Telescope - Mt. Palomar (USA)
Longest Train Flying Scotsman
Largest Temple - Angkorwat in Kampuchea
Oldest Theatre - Teatro Ohm pico (Itlay)
Tallest Tower - C. N. Tower, Toronto (Canada)
Longest Wall - Great Wall of China
Highest Waterfall - Angel (Venezuela)
Widest Waterfall - Khone Falls (Laos)
Lowest Water Level - Dead Sea
Longest Epic - Mahabharata
Hottest Place - Al-Azizia (Libya)
Rainiest Place - Mosinram, near Cherapunji (India)
Highest Road - Leh-Nobra, Ladakh division India.
Highest Village - Andean (Chile)
Highest Volcano - Ojos del Salado, (Argentina) Chile
Largest Volcano - Manuna Lea (Hawai)
Lightest Gas - Hydrogen
Fastest Animal - Cheetah
Biggest Flower - Rafflesia (Java)
Longest Corridor - Rameshwaram Temple (India)
Largest Democracy - India
Fastest Dog - Persian greyhound
Lightest Metal - Lithium

Saturday, November 6, 2010

bestfriends. :D

In a world filled with false pretenses
You are honest

In a life where people are shallow
You are deeply committed

Faced with choices that could hurt
You do what is right

I love you for that.


You believe in me when I doubt myself
You help me go on

You encourage me when I'm overwhelmed
You support my career

You stood by me when I was down
You helped me get up

You are my best friend

I love you for that.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Steep rise in cigarette prices - taken from the borneo bulletin.

Brunei has raised taxes on cigarettes and other tobacco products with effect from today.

According to a Ministry of Finance press release, His Majesty the Sultan and Yang Di-Pertuan of Brunei Darussalam has consented amendments to excise duties for cigarettes, tobacco and tobacco products through the Customs Import Duties (Amendment) Order, 2010 and Excise Duties (Amendment) Order, 2010.

Under the new amendments, cigarettes will be subjected to $0.25 tax per cigarette stick compared to the previous $60 per kilogramme whilst non-manufactured tobacco and tobacco refuse will be subjected to duties totalling $60 per kilogramme compared to the previous $30 per kilogramme.

Cigar, cheroots and cigarillos will also see an increase in duties from $60 per kilogramme to $120 per kilogramme and from $100 per kilogramme to $200 per kilogramme.

The press release also stated that those arriving in the Sultanate from any point of entry into the country, who are over the age of 17 and carrying with them not more than 200 sticks of cigarettes, will be exempted from import duties.

This move comes in the wake of recent enforcement conducted by the Ministry of Health officers in curbing public smoking that aims to safeguard the health of the citizens from contracting chronic diseases related to smoking.

Under the Customs Order 2006, the press release further said, the Royal Customs and Excise Department will undertake appropriate legal action upon any violations under the new amendment such as the failure to declare tobacco products at entry points into the country and other related offences.

Based on the data provided, a pack of 20 cigarettes will now incur a $5 tax. Retail prices, however, were not announced.

The Bulletin visited a number of outlets in the capital, but most were not aware of the new regulations but did state that should the import tax increase, it would also mean that the prices of cigarettes - regulated by the government - will also rise.

Reactions from the public, some of whom heard of the new amendments via Radio Television Brunei in the 8 and 10 o'clock news, are currently divided.

"Couldn't the government follow the ways of the Malaysian authorities?" said one woman referring to Malaysia's gradual increase of cigarette prices from less than RM5 a pack to the current RM10 over a 10-year time span.

Fully understanding the intentions of the government, she also said: "The least they could have done is to give smokers the time to adapt and to slowly kick the habit."

Rozman, a former smoker who had his last cigarette almost two years ago, welcomed the move saying that this could be an incentive for those who have tried to quit but have failed on numerous occasions.

"Brilliant," he said as he lauded the government's efforts. "I also think that the government could do more and further increase the price" and follow Singapore's footsteps as smokers there need to fork over $10 for a pack of branded cigarettes.

However, one woman pointed that despite the high price of cigarettes in Singapore, smokers are still buying them.

She suggested that if the government is serious about health issues, then relevant authorities should nip the problem in the bud and fully cease the importation of cigarettes and any other products that lead to addiction.

A mother of two young children, whose husband has been "wasting away" their income, which could be spent on her children's education and other highly prioritised amenities, echoed what a majority of non-smokers have said: "It's been a long time coming but ... Finally."

Following the credit card curbs geared to control the public's spending, the housewife said that money has been tight and that her husband's habit was not appropriate in a household that has to support a growing family.

Meanwhile, some traders, who did know about the amendments coming into force today, said that agents are currently withholding new stock until after relevant authorities have confirmed the change in prices.