How to Deal With Backstabbers

They might say they're your 'best friends' , but the moment your back is turned, they lie about you to others. No one wants to be hurt in this way, but how do deal with them?. Perhaps the following tips can help.

steps:

1) All backstabbers share a common denominator; they all want something from you. Whether it is money, homework, a house to trash, your computer, your style, practically anything, varies from person to person.

2) Be aware of your surroundings. If you have a bad feeling about somebody, listen to your instincts!

3) Pay attention to red flags.

• If somebody betrays you, don't trust that person again without extensive consideration.
• If the other person doesn't have friends of his or her own, there may be a reason. Perhaps other people know something that you don't.
• If someone is mean to you one minute and nice to you the next, there is definitely something wrong.
• If someone is too aggressive or tries too hard to sell you on something, he or she is likely setting you up.
• Trust your real friends. They're here to help you.
• Notice the other person's work ethic. If he or she is lazy and irresponsible, stay away from the person as far as anything that requires hard work goes. If you work hard, he or she will use you in a heartbeat!

4) Notice how he treats things you care about. For instance if you really care that your room is clean, and after you've explained this to him he still comes over, throws his backpack on the ground, takes his shoes off in the middle of the room and so on; this means he doesn't really care about you.

5) Try to detect from an early stage what the backstabber is interested in sucking from you.

6) If the backstabber persists in pestering you, either ignore him or tell him dispassionately that you do not want to do (insert activity here). Be polite, but extremely firm. If they detect a weakness in your firmness, they will try as hard as they can to puncture it.

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